Tales From the Classroom

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It can be really intimidating going into a classroom full of traditional students if you are a nontraditional. I talked about the need to network and be open to traditional students you come in contact with in a previous post. Overall, my experiences as a 30-something have been positive. Most traditional students have been very respectful and even helpful.

I do know that there is a stereotype traditionals have about nontraditionals. The biggest stereotype is that we tend to be know-it-alls in class. While I personally tend to be on the quiet side, this is actually something I have witnessed in a couple of my classes. My marketing class had well over a hundred students in it. There were two nontraditional guys who sat in the front and had an answer for everything and a story to go along with it as well. Even I had to roll my eyes at them a few times. I do think that probably helped them though so I am not criticizing them. It’s only when a nontraditional becomes condescending or disrupts the instructor that I take issue with it. As nontraditionals, we do have a lot to offer in class. Just be mindful how this may come across.

I also had a smaller public speaking class where I did experience an…interesting interaction with traditionals. For our final, we had a group project. I was paired up with two frat guys. I knew they were frat guys because…well they talked about it lot. We were supposed to begin working on the project the week of Thanksgiving but our instructor decided to cancel class since so many people had expressed that they were going out of town (our class met on Wednesday night).

It’s hard coordinating schedules on the best of days, but it is especially hard for a nontraditional who works a regular 9-5 to coordinate a schedule with traditionals who spend days in class and work part time or have other activities in the evenings. So we only met the one time before the presentation. On the day of presentation, they wanted to meet in the library but I told them I wouldn’t be able to. They decided to go without me and finish up the Powerpoint and we would meet in class. They arrived to class late. Presentations were just about to begin and we had only a couple of minutes to talk.

It wasn’t until we started our presentation that I realized something was off. One of them was super quiet during the presentation, while the other was super talkative. He was so talkative that he would actually repeat everything I said. When the time keeper raised her hand to signal we needed to start wrapping it up, he apparently thought she was asking a question and told her to hold on a minute and continued speaking. The time keeper finally had to say, “Thank you” to signal that we were over our time limit. It was then I realized that they were both drunk! Apparently, while working together in the library, they were taking shots. Honestly, I was more amused by the whole thing than anything else. It was a reminder to me that college is a different experience to them than it is to me. That having fun is as much a part of their experience as papers.

It also taught me that in the future, I will be pulling rank when it comes to group projects because that project was the difference between an A and the B! Yes, we got an 84 on the project and my final grade wound up being 89.2! I am more upset with my instructor than with the guys though. She really couldn’t bump that up by .3?!?


7 Websites for Nontraditional Students

ON POINTTechnically, anyone can use these sites. They are not specific to nontraditional students. If you are just starting school and need some extra help with transitioning to student status, here’s a list of seven of my favorite websites that might help.


Chegg is a website where you can buy or rent text books. I have found this site to be cheaper then renting books through my school. In addition to text books, they also have tutoring services. I used the tutoring while taking calculus and I found it to be really helpful. There is also a monthly subscription where you can get help with homework questions, which I also used while taking Biology.


If you attend college, this site is a lifesaver. Students from your school can go in and rate the instructors which helped me greatly with picking classes. The first time I used this site I was trying to gauge how hard an American history class would be if I took it online. Reading through comments for the class I discovered a lot of people who said this instructor was the easiest A they had ever earned. They were right! I took his class for sections 1 and 2 and got 105 in each class with only about 10% effort! I know that sounds bad, but it’s not like American history is my major. Anyway, I would caution to be careful not to take every individual post as the gospel truth because you never know who’s just a disgruntled student, but I would advise looking for patterns and trends in the comments.


If you are not up on the latest versions of MS Office, or if you must take a computer course then Lynda is a great resource. Lynda teaches everything from MS Word for beginners to Photoshop for graphic designers. It’s a great way to learn or improve your computer skills. FYI, this is a paid site but many colleges provide this service to students.


I used this site while taking calculus (I needed a lot of help in calculus y’all). They have free videos for several subjects. Great resource for learning hard concepts like calculus.


If you only use yt for makeup videos you are missing out! I have watched debates, learned calculus concepts (again), study skills, and organizing through yt. It took me years to realize that test taking and studying were actually skills. I unfortunately learned this half way through last semester and yt helped me develop those skills. Unless you are blessed with a photographic memory, you are going to need to develop this skill set.


Quizlet is basically a place where you can find or create your own digital flash cards. I have never created my own flash cards there but I have come across other people’s flash cards while looking for an answer to a homework problem.


At some point you are going to have to write a research paper and you will be expected to credit your sources. This site generates the citation once you put in the information. This was a time saver when I was taking English, and literature.

So, there you have it. My favorite 5 links/websites that have helped me. Do you have any sites that helped you in school? Leave them in the comments!